Ask

When you see her passing by
with the pain rising in her eyes,
ask her why she cries.
When you don’t understand
what she feels, and why,
ask her why she cries.
When all you can do
is listen to her tears,
ask her why she cries.

Florentine Pig.

Where You Are

Cradled in the arms of the Lord
you are.
But I will always remember
your smile
your laughter
your love for life.
And in the end,
you won.
You won forever.

Dear Kevin,

I hope you knew how many people loved you, and how much they loved you. What can I say, big cousin? We had so much fun growing up together and I never thought it would end. I remember when you introduced me to Weird Al Yankovic. We watched "Amish Paradise" and I thought it was the funniest thing in the world. I still do. And the frogs you gave us one year that croaked Christmas carols- I played mine until it couldn't croak anymore. You were so strong, Kevin, always fighting. You wanted to make the world a better place, and you did. You were the big brother I never had, always goofing on Alisa and I. Janna loved you, too, you were soulmates I think. You were so happy when you finally learned to drive, even though Virginia made you wait longer than Janna had to. And you had such beautiful hair, wild just like you, but even without it, Kevin, you were still you. I'm so proud of you for everything you accomplished in your 22 years. I'm glad that your mom doesn't have to worry about you anymore, but she misses you so much. As will we all until the day we meet again. I love you, Nettie

My sister Melissa and newly minted brother-in-law Zach.

With Lindsey Graham.